If we all got upset everytime someone said something we didn’t like, we would spend all of our time fighting. Learn to choose your battles wisely.

Again… I didn’t get upset. And I didn’t start the fight. Re-read my replies in that particular thread again. I was polite and I informed him in polite way. Accusing me that I got upset when I didn’t, is nothing else than making me equally responsible for that fight… I don’t need that…

I just alarmed the guy not to use too big avatar becaue some of users are still using 640x480 or 800x600 pixels resolution. Think of those people… If they visit his posts they wouldn’t be able to see anything ewlse on the screen except his “tiny” avatar - half of their screen…

And btw… for me, clever person is not the one who knows how to choose his battles wisely… clever person is the one that knows how to awoid battles and live in peace… :wink:

I guess, no one of us is that clever…we are brave or we are cowards. It’s that simple… It’s always easier to choose not to involve. You need guts to do that… sometimes person have to stand for his/her rights, especially if he/her was attacked, and especially if there is no one around to help and morally support (just few, I can count them on my left hand fingers, thanks guys/girls)…

Apparently Sasha,I said something you didn’t like and now you have chosen to fight with me. My previous post is something my mother used to say to me when I would get angry at something she felt wasn’t worth the time and effort. You seem to have taken it personal. Sorry if I offended you.

Gene…

How about let’s all cool it, guys (and gals, although I don’t think any were involved in this)?

This started out as a dispute with a relative “outsider”, even though the person had accumulated a fair number of posts. And Pavel was kind enough to assist in straightening things out, with also some helpful comments from Vlk.

Please, let’s not get it started up again in the family.

Hugs all around, and best to all,
Mike

No way. Totaly not right. I wasn’t fight with you at all Gene. I really don’t see the reason to do that. You said something, and I said something… that’s all. Wasn’t trying to turn this into some kind of verbal fight. I just said what is truth. I didn’t wanted to fight with that guy, he showed us what he really meant… I informed him that his avatar is little too big, and he responded with “I don’t like your skins, I will never use them, blah, blah, blah…” Like I care is he going to use them or hate them… I made them for all those who find them useful and neat looking, not for those who are here just to provoke.

Again, Gene… I really don’t know what makes you think I’m fighting with you now ?!? That wasn’t my intention at all… if I said something that offended you, please forgive me… take my appology and we all can move on…

Cheers to everybody !

Well, Vlk, besides the forum is growing up, what do you think the ‘lack’ of answers in forums… at least, some users feel like that…

I’m getting a headache from all this. :stuck_out_tongue:

What I do agree with is this…

  1. Post only if you can contribute to a solution
    Quantity is NOT always quality !
  2. Support is due ALL, not just those we like or appear nice to us
  3. ANY problem with a user should be resolved via IM or Email and not aired on the forum.
  4. ANY problem that cannot be resolved via #3 should be directed to the proper forum Moderator for resolution.

Thank you.

PS Pavel, the new Forum Policy icon is appreciated.

I won’t even read this thread any more…

Btw, another rule:

5.) If someone spits in your mouth, just swallow it and even if you don’t like it ask him for some more… :stuck_out_tongue:

Sorry, but that made me laugh (szc) ;D

and ask for a poop on the side :wink: