Thanks for the prompt responses! I was trying to figure out how to answer with the quote! LOL
Anyway, I am using XP Home SP2 with IncrediMail 2902 with Windows FW. I do realize that the scanning icon is only present when mail is coming in and, for the most part, love the way it works!
I did have Kaspersky Internet Security installed and uninstalled through Add/Remove followed by their uninstall utility in safe mode.
My ISP is EarthLink … gotta love that dialup! 
I do have avast! Pro set to tag my emails correctly.
Thanks so much for the help. I look forward to your answer and hopefully, fixing this so I can stay with with avast!
BTW, it is working flawlessly at the moment, after doing another repair / restart again!
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