first let me apologize for all the inconveniences you had to go through.
After reading all your posts it still seems a bit strange to me, you should at least see the programs you have already put to sleep in the list of sleeping programs in “Background & startup programs” where you should be able to click “Wake” to wake them up.
If the list is blank, please send us logs and diagnostics data so we can take a look at it.
You can simply send them by executing our log collector utility from this path C:\Program Files (x86)\AVAST Software\Avast Cleanup\tulogcollector.exe assuming that you have still Avast Cleanup installed on your computer.
Just please add your email address there so we can join the logs with your report here.